Friday, 16 February 2018

Tiki: Part 2

Tantallon Road

In 1978 we moved to Balham.  We lived there for ten years.  Tiki was still with us and still capable of having adventures.  His first trick in the new house was to climb up inside one of the fireplaces the day after we moved in.  Fortunately he managed to get out again.  We now only let him out of the house if we were at home.  The house was bigger than the Tooting one but still terraced and on a grid.  This meant it had a smallish garden at the back and opened straight onto the street at the front.  In the summer we could open the French doors from the dining room and the kitchen door and he could walk round and round.  He also liked to climb up the fence and then roam in the nearest couple of gardens.

There was one occasion when on a sunny afternoon in November we thought we had shut him in but we had left the front upstairs window open.  There was no noise from him which was unusual.  I was working in the upstairs front room (the study) and suddenly I heard him shouting.  I went to the window and there he was hiding in the bin stand of the house opposite.  I rushed downstairs, across the road and rescued him.  I was very glad he had had the good sense to stay there and not to try getting into another car.  In the end we realised he had rushed inside from the garden, straight up the stairs and out through the window!  Fortunately he was not hurt.

In the mid-eighties both John’s parents died so Tiki lost his holiday accommodation.  We went to Cornwall for the Easter and left him with the cleaner who knew him well.  When we returned she told us he had howled incessantly and she had been reduced to taking something to help her sleep!  However, we had solved the holiday problem because we bought a cottage in Cornwall and took him with us.  The first time we made the journey there was an ‘accident’ in the car but we then developed a system of taking the cat litter and having a stop where he stayed in the car but was let out of his basket while we went for a coffee, lunch or whatever.  This system worked well with all our subsequent cats.

In 1988 I got a job in Oxford and lived there during the week while we sold the Balham house.  Tiki was about thirteen by this time and we reckoned was a bit deaf but he would still come if you called him.  We developed a trick of taking the carving knife into the garden and rubbing it with the sharpening steel.  That always brought him back.  It was summer during this move so John would let him out until he was ready to go to work and then get him in again.  One day he failed to reappear.  We were back to the problem of trying to find a cat in inner London.  We began by printing ‘lost cat’ notices and getting our nephews to post them in all the houses in the block.  As the houses were large and many were in multiple occupation this was almost all we could do.  The house immediately over the back fence was on the market so I phoned the estate agent and made him take me through the whole house in case he was stuck there.  And we asked all the neighbours.  We did the usual trick of looking under all the parked cars as we thought he could have got into one again.  I still think this is probably what happened as we never found him.  We also realised that as he was older, in theory he could have just gone off to die, as cats do.  It is the only time we have lost a cat and it is not an experience I would want to repeat.  Not knowing what happened to him was terrible as there was no ‘closure’ as we say these days but when we moved we found ourselves living on a main A road, even though we were in a village, and we realised he would never have survived as he had got used to a certain amount of freedom.   In due course we got two new kittens and trained them onto leads so they never had the same degree of freedom.


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