I cannot remember going on holiday from Havelock North and
think we probably did not as we were too small.
Instead our Wellington grandparents would visit us. When we moved to Hastings we started going to
Wellington. I understand my mother hated
the Hawkes Bay climate so much she used to take us down to Wellington for about
a month when we were pre-schoolers although once I started school the pattern
must have changed. Sometimes we went to Wellington by
train and on other occasions we went by car.
The journey took the inside of a day and there were certain rituals
associated with it.
As my mother did not drive we must have gone by car either
with my maternal grandparents or with my father.
Our first stop was in Dannevirke ‘to see a man about a dog’, i.e. for a
comfort stop at the loos. The main stop
was for lunch in Palmerston North. Then
we drove through the Manawatu Gorge, a narrow road with the railway running
alongside it. This road has now (2017)
had to be closed long-term because of a dreadful ‘slip’ (landslide). I can remember there were often slips which
sometimes closed the railway and the road although I cannot remember the road
ever being closed when we wanted to go through it.
Palmerston North was the main town on the other side of the
Gorge. It had a central square with
gardens and, very important for mothers with small children, the Plunket
Rooms. This was a building in the middle
of the gardens with loos and somewhere to change babies. There was angle parking around the outside of
the square. As there were park benches
in the gardens we would sit there to eat our packed lunch. Packed lunches were the norm and it would
never have occurred to anyone to buy food.
I have one outstanding memory of these Palmerston North stops. It was in January 1952. My younger sister was born in November 1951
and my mother had great difficulty breast-feeding her. I think this was partly because of the heat
and it probably did not help that I spent a fortnight in hospital in December
1951, being discharged on Christmas Eve so that I could have Christmas at home.
When my sister was six weeks old my parents decided to wean her. I distinctly remember the whole process because the baby screamed a lot. She would take a bottle from my father but not my mother and after a couple of weeks of this we went on our annual holiday to Wellington. The idea was to feed her in the Plunket rooms in Palmerston North. Men were not allowed in the Plunket rooms so Mum took the three of us in there and my father hovered outside. But it was no use. The baby had to be fed by him so he had to come in. I can remember a well-built middle-aged Plunket nurse coming and berating my parents for this. She was probably appalled at the idea of a father feeding a baby as well as the fact that we were breaking the rules
When my sister was six weeks old my parents decided to wean her. I distinctly remember the whole process because the baby screamed a lot. She would take a bottle from my father but not my mother and after a couple of weeks of this we went on our annual holiday to Wellington. The idea was to feed her in the Plunket rooms in Palmerston North. Men were not allowed in the Plunket rooms so Mum took the three of us in there and my father hovered outside. But it was no use. The baby had to be fed by him so he had to come in. I can remember a well-built middle-aged Plunket nurse coming and berating my parents for this. She was probably appalled at the idea of a father feeding a baby as well as the fact that we were breaking the rules
.
After lunch we would continue the journey down through the
Manawatu. There were several large
rivers and on the banks of one was a tea-shop which I can remember visiting. I can also remember proudly
reading out the writing on the road signs the year I learnt to read. My triumph was apparently to announce that we
were on the ‘main rout’ rather than ‘route’ and I was not allowed to forget this
for years. I also remember large sign
boards advertising different agricultural tools including one for ‘Gough, Gough
and Hamer’ which had a large tractor on it.
I pronounced ‘Hamer’ as ‘hammer’ of course. There were a lot of market gardens as we got
nearer to Wellington and then the road ran alongside the foot of the hills
beside the sea before turning inland and approaching Wellington via the
Ngauranga Gorge. Before reaching the
gorge, you passed through an area which is now built up but then was known
mainly as the site of Porirua Hospital, the lunatic asylum where we knew one of
my grandmother’s brothers was a patient.
Near to that was Arohata Borstal, the women’s prison.
The train journey to Wellington was also a major event. If it was just my mother taking us on
holiday, that is how we travelled. Again it took
the inside of a day with, I think, half an hour’s stop at Palmerston North station
where we ate our sandwiches for lunch. Other passengers would go into the station buffet and buy sandwiches, which always seemed to be ham, and meat pies which are a famous NZ snack.
The best thing about the train journey was that at Paekakariki, about
thirty miles up the line from Wellington, there was another stop for them to
change the engine. My mother would walk
us along the platform to witness this. The line from Wellington to Paekak (as
it was always called) had been converted for diesel trains so the steam engine
was removed and the diesel attached. The
reverse happened on the journey north. I
can also remember things about the journey back to Hastings, particularly that
we used to stand at the carriage window as we approached Hastings and look out
at the buildings at the edge of town.
These included the boys’ high school.
I also remember the doplar effect from the noise of the level crossing
signals and the distinctive sound of the train’s hooter. New Zealand had trains that were more like
American ones than British so the ‘hooter’ sounded like something from an
American movie.
The carriages were not
divided into compartments but had seats arranged in pairs down a long
aisle. We always travelled first class
and there are incidents from these journeys that I still remember. On one occasion a man in our carriage taught
Margaret how to wink. When I was a bit
older (seven and eight) I made this journey on my own. My parents would eye up a likely looking mature
woman and ask her to keep an eye on me and off I would go to visit my grandparents. I think I went in 1952 and I certainly went
in the May school holidays in 1953 and was staying with them for the Coronation
and the conquest of Everest.
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